Our Christmas Letter

Hello family and friends….

Well, Merry Christmas to you and your family! Most of you haven’t met me quite yet, but let me introduce myself, I’m Connor and I was born earlier this year on June 24^th. My parents say I do a lot of smiling, laughing, and am learning more each and every day so they gave me this task of writing the family’s Christmas letter. So, here I drool over the keyboard thinking about how I can explain my parents. They are pretty silly; they do a lot of laughing themselves.

My Mom is currently staying at home with me and loving it. We do lots of fun stuff like sing songs and I really enjoy when she makes silly faces at me. Sometimes my Mom takes me to go play at the YMCA so she can train for her half marathon this upcoming spring. My Mom says that being a Mom is so amazing.

My Dad, wow he’s a great Dad! He’s working a lot right now with Walgreen’s as well as a part time job with Theken Spine (a medical equipment company). My Dad is enjoying his jobs, but when he’s home with me; he’s really happy. He makes me laugh so hard at times it comes straight from my belly. My Dad is also training to run with my Mom in the spring, but in the fall he plans on completing a full marathon and I can’t wait to hold up a sign to cheer him on!

As for me, well, I’m not conceded but would have to say that I’m a pretty good baby. I love to take baths and splash around. I also have traveled to many places so far; my parents have taken me to Michigan, Washington DC, and Washington state. I’ve gone on car, plane, and boat rides already…and have enjoyed all but the boat ride- that was a bit bumpy. This upcoming year my parents have a lot more trips in store for us.

Well, I guess I could go on and on, but I think this letter will make my parents proud…here’s to wishing you and your family a VERY Merry Christmas as well as a great 2010, take care and God Bless.

Love,

Connor (and my parents too!)

Happy Thanksgiving!

There is so much to be thankful for, no matter what shoes you find yourself in (so to speak).

I'm so thankful for such a wonderful husband, an amazing son, as well as such a supportive, loving family surrounding us.

I'm thankful for the friends, old and new.

I'm thankful for all the health of our family and friends.

I'm thankful that I get to be at home with Connor each day to see what new things he learns!

I'm thankful that we are able to pay our bills.

I'm thankful for the roof over my head and clothes on our backs.

I'm thankful for the food that is in our bellies.

I'm thankful for all the men and women over seas and for their families supporting them back home.

I'm thankful for all the fun traditions, and new ones to start with Connor, such as waking to watch the Thanksgiving parade while reading the black friday ads (this year we won't be shopping....sad, I know!)

Life is a wonderful blessing; here's to wishing you and your family a wonderful Thanksgiving, and hope that you too are blessed this year!

When life gives you lemons...

...you are to make lemonade, right!?!?! But, what if I DON'T want lemonade?

I am so grateful for Sean to be working so hard for our family. He is such a strong, driven, righteous man that I am proud to call my husband and best friend.

God will provide. We will continue to take one day at a time and focus on our goal as to where we want to be, for one day, hopefully sooner rather than later, we will be there...right where we want to be!

I WON!

I never win anything (okay, I won a great family!) But materialistic wise, I NEVER win anything, but I won from Stacey's blog giveaway! Yeah! Thank you Stacey! (And, I hope you have changed your mind, school night or no school night; I think you should take your daughter to the midnight showing of 'New Moon'!)

*Just had to share that with everyone!*

Getting excited for our date....

This upcoming Sunday afternoon, Sean and I are going to go to the movies...and guess who gets to pick the movie!?!? Yes, I do! It's about time; he always gets to pick; then again, I normally don't care. But right now it seems like there are soo many good movies that are coming out...but, we are going to see...."New Moon". Yes, it's true- I'm totally into the Twilight saga. The first book was amazing, movie was great....second book was a hard one to read, but the movie looks like it's going to be amazing! I will have to say, I'm about 300 pages shy of the ending of the 4th book; and well...truth be told- I can't WAIT for that movie to come out...okay, so now I'm rambling about the Twilight saga on here- but point is-I'm sooo excited to go spend some time with Sean! This will be our second date since Connor's been born. I will have to say even though this is our second date, we always find time at night to cuddle up and talk and spend one on one time together...so it's not like we are longing for this; but I just don't think it would be enjoyable to go to the movies with an infant! Now, let's hope that it's not filled with a MILLION teenaged girls. I was hoping to go on a Monday afternoon or something when kids are in school; but since Sean will be working- this is the soonest we can go! Okay, I just realized...it's only Monday- I have 6 days to wait now...argh!

I couldn't ask for anything else!

So, can I just tell you that I am living the dream? I know, there are a few things out of the dream that could be better, for example the three of us living in a one bedroom condo...but other than that- I am living the perfect life! I couldn't ask for anything else in this life. Sean has been working a lot lately to provide for our family; but he is still insisting that we begin family traditions. This Fall, we went pumpkin picking, we bought apple cider, and we had a great day at a local farm taking pictures. At the farm, we just happened to come across this really cute dinosaur pumpkin!One day last week, Sean called on his way home stating that the milk at his store was set to expire the following week, so he was going to stop by another store to get milk that would last longer. While he was there, he walked passed the floral department and for no reason at all...he decided to pick me up these beautiful flowers! I was so thankful for the flowers and again reminded that I am LOVING life! It's amazing how great it feels to have found "the one man" for me...and to have th BEST baby in the world (okay, a bit biast) BUT....it's just amazing that this is where I am in life. For so many years in high school, college and beyond I had worked so hard, dreamed so hard to be right here where I am...and now that I'm here; I want to find that pause button...because life is so great!

I hope to update more often, but we shall see how that goes!

GAP Contest

Vote for Connor everyday for the GAP contest! I want him to win so badly....Please!

When you get there, put smilyn22 in the box and VOTE!

You can do this EVERYDAY!!! (Please *wink*)

Thanks for your help- tell your friends too!

A lil update

Sean and I...agh- our blog! It's been sometime since I have updated on here- but, nothing has changed with Sean and I...we are getting closer and closer and still laughing like two teens in love. We bicker a little bit more with each other, but it's all fun and games!

Most recently Sean has proven, yet again...that he is a GREAT support in my life. I wasn't enjoying my last job....I pretty much hated it there from the beginning....but as some people from there read this, I won't go into much detail. But, going back to work after my maternity leave proved that I should just quit and rely on our faith...so, that's what we did! I quit my job with nothing to fall back on in this economy. Right now, it's Connor and I figuring out how to make a $1 turn into a $1.50 and Sean is off to work more and more to provide for us. Don't get me wrong, it's not like we are scraping bottom, but we are just being evermore cautious with our spending! Being at home, to be a wife and a Mom has been amazing! I have also found time for me as I go and workout at the YMCA. I am loving this, and also knowing that I do need a job...but for now relishing in the moment and loving that my husband is supporting this decision. This was a HUGE risk for the both of us to take as we are both planners...but this time, we are relying on faith...and what a GREAT feeling that is!

The countdown is on...

5,4,3....I am so excited to be packing for a fun family trip to Washington state to visit my sister Amy! We leave in three days and it's true, I have started packing! While we are out there we will be celebrating some birthdays. We will be apple picking...and just spending time with family. Sean has never been out west (well that far west) before, so it is going to be exciting to see his reaction.

I also want you all to take a visit over at Stacey's blog...she's doing a fall time give-a-way! Fall is my favorite season I think...it's so colorful, college football, jeans & sweatshirt weather, the crunch of leaves below your feet, pumpkin spice lattes...need I say more? What is it you like about Fall?

I'm back!

Wow have things been busy! The past few weeks, my life has been consumed with the anticipation of going back to work. I am only there part time for now, but it seems like I am there a lot more...luckily I get to bring Connor with me, and then when Sean is done with his job, he comes up there and picks up Connor. However, they have me working really horrible hours, and at times the childcare isn't available for infants, which leaves me empty handed with Sean's retail schedule. So, my Mom, the amazing woman she is, took a vacation day so she could help us out tomorrow. I am not keen on having my Mom do this, but it was her idea and so I guess I have to be accepting of gifts once in a while. While, I've been busy with work, Connor has started teething already!!! So, he was unimaginably fussy the last two days (of course, those are my first two days at work).

For those of you who have been reading my blog for a while, know that I love the show 'Jon & Kate Plus 8', well, this past Friday, I went to the Women's show and met Kate! It was so much fun....but, once I got to her, she asked me how I was...and I responded with "surprisingly nervous" she then laughed at me, and said "Seriously?" I then felt like a lot of time went by where I couldn't find any words to come out of my mouth. Yes, I guess you could say I was star struck...yes, I am a dork! This upcoming Saturday, I plan to go with my cousin to have her meet Lebron James...let's see how that goes!

And, on a side note, Sean & I are still trying to sell our condo. We are making due with what we have here, but would really like to move onto that next chapter with a house...preferably one of the ones we have fallen in love with that is still on the market....we'd like to get it before someone else...so, if you could keep us in your thoughts and positively think someone will fall in love with this condo like I did at one time, that would be great.

Don't forget to tune into Connor's blog...

The things we do for each other...

It is amazing how much time a little baby takes up....but he is worth it! I will have to say that this boggling of motherhood and wifehood is a bit tricky. I blink my eye and Connor's looks have changed. And, I blink my eye and Sean is back at work to provide for our family. It is so hard to be a part of it all, but I feel that I am doing an ok job at this....I mean, I m keeping up with laundry...so life is good, right? I am just sitting down after a whirlwind of a morning, 2 loads of laundry folded- third in the dryer. 3 mile run complete. Connor's been fed 3 times already. The house is picked up. Read a fun book to Connor (Mig the Pig). I have noted more items in Connor's baby book. Sean's laundry is put away so he doesn't have to do it after work. Clean dishes from dishwasher put away. Clothes donated to goodwill. Car washed.....egh! And, now it's 2:00pm and I am beat....so, why not relax and blog while Connor is sleeping....it's so hard for me to sit and relax as there's so much that still needs to be completed....I can easily see how many women end up never finding time for just them....so, while Connor naps, and now that my boring blog has been updated...I'm off to paint my toes and sit in the sun! I can't imagine how this is all going to work when I go back to work...I guess I am going to have to give up on freshly folded laundry or something along those lines!

One year....

A year ago today, Sean and I left for our honeymoon!

A year ago yesterday, Sean and I made a promise to spend the rest of our lives together.

A year ago, two days ago....Sean and I were dreaming of the BIG day with much anticipation.

A year ago, three days ago, we had our rehearsal practice and dinner with family and close friends.

A year ago, four days ago....my sister and her family arrived and we welcomed them all in with a combined family cookout.

It's amazing that all the planning that took months only lasted for those few amazing days. This past year, our life has been a crazy life....but in a good way. We decided to start a family of our own, without much a due, we succeeded only after 2 months of trying. Sean interviewed for a job promotion, but the timing just wasn't right this year. Maybe next year. We survivied the bad economy; as Sean supported it with purchasing me a car much to my dismay. We went to Indians games, countless date nights-savoring them prior to our little addition. I sent Sean on an exciting valentine's day hunt (we all know he'd love for me to do that again...) We laughed over silly stuff including the time when Sean's wisdom teeth were pulled- he doesn't do well on vicodin! We put our condo on the market to move onto the next stage of our life. And we shared the joys of welcoming our son into the world.

They say the first year is the hardest, but it's been the best year of my life. I can't wait to spend the next 50 years with him, vacationing, talking, laughing, sharing, and eventually retirement sitting on a front porch in our matching rocking chairs and an iced cold glass of lemonade!

Time is flying...

It is amazing how much time is flying by- they say that happens when you are having fun! I love being a wife and a mommy. The juggling act between the two isn't as difficult as I thought it would be, however...I am sure once I put work back into the equation it will be a whole new story. I love being at home right now, but unfortunately- you don't get paid to be at home...so, it will be off to work eventually. I am lucky to have permission to take 12 weeks off..so I am savoring each and every day that is for sure!

A typical day in my shoes currently are...feedings every three hours- give or take. Taking naps with Connor on my chest. Laundry. Bathing Connor or myself. Walking....or rare trips to the health club for a serious workout. Reading books and singing songs. Playing music. Changing Connor's clothes....(because of his talent of being able to pee up his BACK! Not sure how the kid does it!) Did I mention laundry? And, if you know me- you must know that each day consists of organizing!

It is amazing how quick the time is going by, then again, I guess we have been busy. It's been 4 weeks since Connor has come into our lives. We have had two people come see our condo on two separate occasions, unfortunately no buyers. We have made it to a funeral. :-( And, to a wedding. Sean has had a job interview. We have had MANY friends and family come over to meet Connor...and many more that still need to meet him.

But through all of this; I have loved EVERY moment...I don't think I have been stressed once in the past 4 weeks. We have been blessed with such a happy, content little boy. I am so lucky to have Sean in my life; he's such a great husband and father. I love watching the way the two boys interact...the way Connor just stares at Sean is incredibly awesome (Connor doesn't ever look at me/anyone that way....however Connor will react to the sound of my voice). I am so lucky to have this time....now if someone could tell me how to stop the hour glass so I can relish in these moments forever, that would be great!

Our new life...

Since Connor has arrived- my blog name remains the same "the happy life I've dreamed of..." Being a wife and a mommy is such a wonderful experience- one that I honestly didn't think I would be either title of (wife or mommy). Sean is such a great husband and father and I couldn't be happier with him in my life. I know now that there's a balancing act- I must continue to put him first, then our son. As for Connor, wow- he's great...a very content baby- rarely cries....he's got his own little personality at the ripe age of 18 days old. Last night I was laying on the couch with Connor on my chest sleeping- and Sean walked in from a long day of work....Sean dropped everything and came over and the three of us just laid there- it was so nice that I guess I can only sum it up to....fairy tales do come true! I am looking forward to this new life with my boys...

Connor's birth...

Take a look at babymcguinness.blogspot.com for updates on Connor's birthday- and future pictures to come...

Will update here in a bit....stay tuned!

Connor Michael is here!

Born June 24th at 7:26pm weighing a strong 5 lbs 11oz. He is 5 weeks early, but boy he is sooo stinkin cute. We are still at the hospital and I plan to write several entries here in the near future while everything is so fresh in my mind....but for now- I have updated for all my fellow blog readers to let you know the good news!

Sean's birthday...

yikes! his birthday is right around the corner and I have NO CLUE what to get him...the man that has everything....thoughts?

Sean...is so great!

how many other guys ask their wife if they would like to go shopping for new clothes- maybe something special for the baby shower that is rapidly approaching?!?  Ohh, my husband does!  Of course, this is after he's picked up the house, vacuumed carpets, completed the laundry, emptied the dishwasher- and demands me to come home from work and relax!  Who needs Edward Cullen when I have a Sean McGuinness!

How could I be sooo lucky?!?!?  Now, if I could just get my BP to go down! 

lacking...

blog ideas!

when it rains...it pours!

First off- Sean is doing GREAT minus his lack of wisdom (ha ha ha!)  He's healing nicely with his little chipmunk cheeks! 

Secondly, I have come to find, when it rains, it POURS!   In the past week or two, the following have broke...and we need (or needed) new...

• Sean's front/back brakes for his car
  
• The garage door spring (thank goodness no one got hurt)
  
• My FAVORITE large salad bowl (my doing)
  
• Our dryer's motor went kerplunk...
  
• ...not to mention all the other Dr. bills for me; and now Sean's mouth too...so, indeed; when it rains....it indeed pours!  

But, all in all; these are all material items.  I am healthy, Sean is healthy, my family is healthy...so, I will sit back, continue to pray that my family remains healthy...and that everything else will continue to fall into place and hopefully be repaired....cheap...

Wisdom...

Sean is going to be getting his wisdom teeth pulled this morning...so, we both have the next 4 days off with each other.  Now, for me; I was out of bed the evening and eating spagetti O's...Sean, I think will be a different story; sooo....I have made a HUGE to-do list while I am home. 

Clean out car, vacuum car, oil change, organize wedding pictures, organize all my other pictures as well, order photobook from our wedding- (yes, will have to look at each and every picture), organize & pack up some storage areas (so they can be filled in a few weeks with baby stuff; ie diapers, etc.)  

I think that is it for now; however...is this the begining of nesting; or just me wanting to get caught up on some things?!?!

Wish Sean luck; he has one tooth completely sideways- you should have seen the x-rays...

My Mom...

Yesterday was Mother's Day and I have to say- I hope I can be half the Mom, my Mom is...which would be a pretty darn good Mom!

My Mom has always been there for us three girls; and very understanding of each of our needs as growing up, we were all VERY different.  My Mom raised me in a single parent house when I was the mere age of one; but that didn't stop her from being a room Mom, a girl scout leader, and a sport cheerer all the while working full time and I believe part time as well.  My Mom came to all of our school plays.  She took us out for ice cream for dinner.  We went on vacations.  My Mom was the "cool Mom" on the block as all the neighborhood kids would always play tricks on her...like stacking all the Christmas trees in front of her garage so she couldn't leave for work in the morning; or toilet papering our house- I believe once we counted 300 rolls.  My Mom is a nurse, so for us girls, we would say "Mom, I hurt my ________" and her candid response would always be "It will heal before you get married".   We would be sick; and she would say "did you throw up?" No, okay you're off to school".  (Mom, remember that one time when I was really sick and you didn't believe me, because I laid on your bed and took my hand and put it on my forehead as if I were acting....I then threw up all over your room).  My Mom is by far an amazing woman. 

Now, my Mom also has some fun stories behind her madness of this balancing act; I won't mention that one time she hit the BIG orange barrels on the turnpike when her mind was lost somewhere else.  Or that time when she scared the ice cream man away, what about that time the family was off to the circus and a deer came flying over our car....these are all great moments of my Mom....that we will never her let live down. (Just kidding with these Mom).

My Mom to this day puts us before anything; even her own needs most of the time.  My Mom has been a great Mom over the years, and now, as I am embarking on this journey into Motherhood...I hope I can be half the Mom she is for my sisters and I.  I love you Mom! 

I've always wanted...

A camera that would take lots of pictures in rapid succession; and now, I have one!  I have specifically been asking for the Nikon D40 just shy of a year now...and well, yesterday when I was at work, Sean called me.  I picked up the phone and the conversation went something like this...

Sean: I'm going to make dinner, what would you like, 

breakfast or chicken, mashed potatoes, and a veggie?

Me: Definitely breakfast. 

Sean: Okay, I will have it ready when you get home, then we can go to Target and get your camera! 

Me: WHAT?!?!

Sean: What kind of breakfast do you want?

Me: Ramble on about eggs, biscuts, etc. 

I arrive home a few hours later and sure enough breakfast was near complete.  We then, shipped out to Target.  We arrive to the electronic section (where I may add- it was a nut house). The service guy asks us if we need assistance...long story short within literally 5 minutes; I have my dream camera, additional lens, and a receipt in my hand!  I couldn't believe it.  I am so excited to use this camera to capture memories and moments...now if it would stop raining so I can go outside and play! 

Here's what it look likes...

Taking it all in...

Right now, I am sitting on my front porch of my little condo thinking how great it would be if we received an offer on the condo; or even someone to request to see the condo....as I sit here thinking of all the wants in the world, I am forgetting to take it all in.  

As I sit here, the temperature is perfect, the sun is beginning to set between the tall pine trees and the birds are chirping a little tune. I can literally hear the wind. As I sit here and think to myself;  I need to remember to live in the moment.  Live in the moment that I have a little boy inside me kicking me; which I love feeling that.  It's time to take a deep breath, stop what you are doing and reflect on where you are right now.  Life certainly gives us a lot of curve balls in life.  A lot of "what ifs" and "but..." but life also tends to give us some moments and time to reflect.  I have been doing a lot of that lately...have you taken the time for you?  Off to daydream....

8 Things...

8 Things I'm Looking Forward to...
1. Spending the rest of my life with Sean
2. Bringing Connor into this world
3. Going on my first family vacation to visit my sister in WA in September
4. Getting a summer vacation (which I haven't had since 2001)
5. Selling our condo & buying our first home
6. Organizing the new home to our liking
7. Begin running and working out again; I miss that "high"
8. The next years watching Connor grow, discover and develop

8 Things I did Yesterday...
1. Gave Sean a hug and kiss
2. Laid out in the sun- on my lunch break
3. Made my Mom's day by surprising her coming over and doing yard work
4. Did yard work at my parent's house
5. Taught a running class
6. Checked my e-mail, facebook, etc...I'm computer addict
7. Talked with my sister on the phone
8. Got some chocolate custard...yum!

8 Random things about me that you may not know...
1. I can juggle
2. I graduated from high school early
3. I have been seen in the audience on the following TV shows, Little People, Big World, The Today Show, The Rosie O'Donnell Show; and went to Oprah; but wasn't on TV
4. I have flown a plane- a small 2 seater
5. I had my college education paid off prior to graduating
6. I made the Dean's list twice in college, this while working and attending school full time
7. I would like to have 4 children (3 at least!)
8. I like to talk and meet new people, but in unfamiliar areas, I freeze up and become really shy

8 Things I Wish I Could Do...
1. Be a stay at home Mom
2. Say some things on my mind & not get in trouble or it be held against me
3. Fly (like a plane; birds exert too much energy)
4. Be famous; just for the $, then, be an unknown star who can walk around the lime light with no problem with being recognized
5. I wish I could run....right now! (About 3-4 more months!)
6. Be a bit more outgoing; like a "Coyote" from Coyote Ugly & dance on the bar
7. I wish I could be a clone and be able to experience so much more at a double speed; so much to do and life is so short.
8. I wish I could not worry about other people or the future.

8 Shows I Enjoy....
1. Jon & Kate plus 8
2. Little People, BIG World (I went to their farm)
3. The Biggest Loser
4. A Baby Story
5. Desperate Housewives
6. The Office
7. Law & Order
8. Friends re-runs

Our weekend...

This past weekend, like all was pretty busy...however, nice!

Friday evening Sean was off work, so we had the evening together. I had made dinner so we had a nice meal...and then decided since the weather was nice we would go for a walk. Our neighborhood is literally up hills, then down, so on and so forth, so I asked if we could go do a trail...and we found ourselves at Virginia Kendall where we walked for a bit and then watched the sunset. It was so nice. As we walked back to the car, I felt like a teen in love holding hands across the field to our car. It is so great to have moments like these...hand in hand and so happy.

Saturday afternoon, Sean and I had a "date night" which proved that we are a boring married couple...we found ourselves after a nice dinner at Outback (FREE with our cash back rewards from Discover Card) Then, we went to go to the movies with our FREE movie passes, but the guy at the theatre said "hey buddy haven't been an AMC for a year" then he continued to write on his little clip board. I then protested and said "apparently he doesn't want to sell us tickets; and we left". This is where we become boring....we went to Target to get a shower curtain and Lowe's to get a planted flower pot for our open house the next day. We then went and got some ice cream...which was sooo good. (Can you tell that's what I crave?) Once we got home, our neighbors called us and asked if we would like to come over and watch a movie; so we did; which made us feel a little bit less boring; since we were arriving home from our date just shy of 9pm.

Sunday, was just as nice....after cleaning the condo, I went to my Mom's house and she and I went to Target then, lunch at Panera...(she bought my lunch since I was a good little girl while she ran her errands at Target). After lunch, we went back to her house and I napped for a few hours; shopping made me tired apparently. When I woke up; I went home; Sean had just gotten off work and we had to go the the grocery store....now, most of you probably think of grocery store shopping as a pain...I do too! But, Sean, he's hilarious with grocery shopping! He dances around like Carlton from 'Fresh Prince', literally sneaks in and gives me a kiss as he secretively is adding items into my nicely organized cart. We start out with produce and by the time we get to the end of the store- we are stacking items on top of everything; including on the bread! (I hate that). We then always do the self checkout; I scan and he bags. We also try to guess how much we saved with coupons and our advantage card (this time was our best at $20 and have .60 cents off gas!) When we get home, we both bring in groceries, he puts away the dry stuff; and I do the cold stuff. I love this routine as we work really well together. I will have to say we will have to think of a new strategy when Connor is born since we over fill our cart...and can't even imagine a car seat carrier in there too!

Then of course, our Sunday evening ended with Desperate housewives...and ear wax candles! Yes, they are candles you put in your ear and it pulls out all the wax. I swear by them; they help with allergies and colds, etc. Well, you can't do it alone as there is a flame and someone needs to keep their 'eye' on it. Well, apparently time slipped by and Sean was like; don't move!!! Right as I was moving....the candles ashes fell onto the plate and Sean quickly blew at the fire causing ashes and some of the flame to go EVERYWHERE! It was funny because he then continued to say "LYNSEY DONT MOVE". There wasn't a fire, but there certainly was A LOT of laughter!

This is truly the life that I have dreamed of...and I am so thankful to have been able to spend some time with Sean the past few days.

Connor's blog...

Don't forget to take at Connor's blog...

I can't believe we are already so far along...before we know it; he will be here!

2 steps forward; 3 steps back

This past week, I really felt was  a rough week on me....yes, my birthday week and all; it just seemed like I kept grabbing the short end of the stick.    You see, as we all know I am expecting a little boy in 3 shorts months.  My world right now is in a constant "what if" state.  It seems like I have no control of a lot of things in my life right now.  I won't know when the condo will sell, where we will go, when Connor will arrive, what if all of that happens at the same time?  I know, I know, you're thinking; Lynsey- serisously one day at a time.  But, this is hard for me, "the type A, follow a list and check it off type of person". 

You see, about a month ago, I scheduled all of these appointments so I can try to keep control with things.  Dentist appointments, eye Dr check up, my normal Dr. appointment, shopping with friends, and well, all of that on top of trying to work and have the energy to workout; it's just hard to keep up and stay ahead.

Well, last week, not only did I have to cancel my dentist appointment because I didn't realize with my heart murmor that my actual family Dr had to see me to prescribe me my antibiotic...and well, with less than a weeks notice, I wasn't about to wait 3 hours in her waiting room.  So, I cancelled the dentist appointment.  A few days later, the eye Dr. receptionist calls and says that they do not accept our insurance and I would have to pay 100%....so, I cancelled that appointment as well.   It just seems as I sit, trying to get caught up in taking care of my health and my husbands- I keep getting the short of end of the stick trying to get ahead.  Sean on the other hand will be going to the dentist tomorrow morning for a teeth cleaning; lucky guy!

So, today, I sat in need of a hair cut- so after church; I left (as Sean worked on Connor's room) and I went and cut 5 inches off of my hair; and then I got layers- so...needless to say- I am not going to grow it out anymore to donate it.  I just couldn't do it; I wanted my nice healthy hair back; so I took control and got my hair cut!  Now...I hate it!  But it will grow back and it looks a lot healthier.

This week; Sean and I have a lot scheduled...he has dentist appointment and job interview for a promotion on Monday.  I have my ultrasound to check on Connor on Tuesday (please keep fingers crossed that they can see all 4 healthy heart chambers).  Wednesday evening, we have an infant CPR class, Thursday evening we have a meeting to see how much we qualify for a house...once the condo sells.  And, Friday evening; we have something planned, I am just forgetting at this point (hopefully it's relaxing) Saturday we are off to register for Connor....so with that all said...I am off to paint my nails and pamper myself as this next work week seems like it's going to be a busy one.  

So, as you venture into a new work week, do the best with what you have; and well...let's hope that everything goes as planned and we aren't taking any steps backwards this week. 

Let's hope this doesn't stop for 50+ years!

This morning is yes, my birthday! I am not one to really LOVE my birthday; I don't like the attention and I would rather give gifts then receive...which always makes it difficult for others to think of something for me.

Well, this morning, I was laying there all snug in my bed (I sleep alone now with my tossing and turning like a fish out of water). Well, as I laid slumber all snug in my bed, I felt the covers lift off me and then Sean crawled in with me; holding me tight and wishing me a "Happy Birthday". He was so sweet about it (since I am not a morning person). He then told me I didn't look any older! Then, as I slowly woke up, he started to get excited and he said; "Guess what?!?.....You're now the age that you will be when you have Connor!"

All in all, waking up this morning was so nice...which I can only hope that this happens for the next 50+ years!

Media Free

I went media free the other evening and just wanted to share what a nice evening it was.  I was also home alone so I will admit that it was a bit quite; but I was able to reflect clearly on a few things; I was able to accomplish a lot...including painted nails and toes (yes, I can still reach them for now). 

I will have to say, I highly recommend doing this...it was a VERY nice evening!

YOU!

When was the last time you took time for YOU?

Time to relax, read a book while a candle is lit? Painted your nails; including your toes. How about whiten your teeth, do a hair treatment, pamper you!

This evening, I plan to make it a media free night which I learned from my blogging friend Stacey. I will not get on the computer, nor turn the TV on...and I am not going to answer my cell phone...it will be an evening just for me. A time for me to reflect on things in life, and time for me to organize and keep busy without all the other distractions there are.

And, yes, Sean is lucky since this evening he works; he doesn't have to partake in my media free evening!

Wish me luck as I think this will be hard to do!

A bit touchy subject..

First and foremost, this post is going to be maybe the most controversial post I have ever shared.  Let's be honest, I really debated about writing it; but hey...maybe it will lead to lots of comments.  

You see, this morning, I went to Target, you know had to get my weekly fill of Target in.  I was walking around the maternity area when a upper class younger girl and a mother joined me (those who know Target; there's only a few racks of maternity).  Well, I looked at the Mom thinking she was going to be having another child (she's maybe 40). But no...the Mom was there shopping with her 14 year-old (and this is me being nice...she could have been younger).  The Mom was stating to her daughter that she really needed to try on these jeans as her current ones are getting too tight.  The daughter, complained not wanting "that blue belt around the waist", she whined; threw a temper tantrum...I had to leave that section.  

This girl was young and her Mom had to have lived in a nice, wealthy neighborhood...just by their clothes...but the rock on the Mom's hand confirmed it.   

Now, where am I to judge; it's great that this young lady has talked with her Mom and will be going threw with having a child.   Who knows, maybe she will be giving it to a young couple who can't bear children...I am sure this baby like any child will be a blessing.   

However, on the other side of the coin where was this mother before her 14 year old was out making babies?  She's a child herself.  And, now, knowing the hormones, emotions, strange things that go on...I can't even imagine being 14 years old and going through this.  It saddens my heart that this young girl has to go through this and miss out on the other things in life such as sleep overs with girlfriends, attending school without looks from others...for crying out loud; she doesn't even have a job yet, or a license. 

Now, as you know, I don't know the full story behind all of this; however, what I do know is that there's a young girl in our area whose life is going to go through a lot in the next few months and my heart goes out to her. 

Goals...

Do you ever think of where you want to be a year from today? I have had lots on my mind lately and just wonder how much will be changing here within the next year and those that follow. And, I sit and wonder what goals of mine will get accomplished by the time I am 30 and which ones may end up by the wayside!?! Not intentionally by the wayside, but as we are all well aware sometimes its good to expect the unexpected.

So, in hopes to jot down and make public, there are a few goals of mine that I would like to share...

1. Have a baby (or two, maybe 3 by 30)
2. Buy a house
3. Build a closer relationship with God
4. Take a vacation each year (I mean who doesn't need a vacation, right?)
5. Write a book (not necessarily publish it)
6. Organize my pictures from past, and continue to take more for the future; taking pictures is a passion of mine; and I don't take enough it seems.
7. Be the best wife in the world to my ever deserving husband so we are still in this "puppy love" phase years from now
8. Hopefully at some point live my dream of being a stay at home Mom

What does your future hold?!?!

Ahhh...do you smell that?!?!

Can you smell it!??!  

It's spring!  Okay, maybe it's too soon to smell in our neck of the woods; however, it's coming you just have to look for it!   I know I have mentioned that I love my husband dearly and think he's the greatest thing since...well, sliced bread of course!  But there's something else that just makes him soo...appealing to me!  It's that he always takes the time to find the little things in life.   

Last night Sean and I went for a walk on a metroparks trail.  It was so quiet and well, COLD! He forced me to wear a jacket (I fought since I had a sweatshirt on).  Then, when we got to the car, he mentioned he also grabbed me some gloves...I laughed at his thoughtfulness.  We arrived to the trail; and let it be known, I think it had dropped 5 degrees since we left the house; I then bundled up as he helped me put on my jacket (quite the gentleman).  

We began our venture holding hands down the trail and nodding our heads to the other brave souls walking.  Then, thats when it happened...we heard the sway of the branches and both looked up hoping not to find a tree branch about to fall...and then in the midst of the Cuyahoga River, we saw it!!  Well, Sean saw it and pointed it out.  The trees are starting to bud!  Yes!  Then, looking down at the ground, there we saw daffodils were starting to peer out of the ground.  Yay....there is light at the end of the jackets, gloves and seeing your breath when you breathe.  

You see, yesterday starting out on our walk; I DIDNT want to go at all.  I was too wrapped up on how stressed I am with work, being pregnant, selling the condo, trying to be a good wife, daughter, friend, cousin, etc.  It's like I feel that I am finding myself all wrapped up in one big stress-ball.  Then, here's my husband to balance me out and point out the little things; such as the trees budding, or being caring enough to think of me being cold and pack me gloves. 

 

So, here's my recommendation.  Take a moment for you.  Take a moment to look around and see how things are changing in everyday life.  It's so easy to get wrapped up in little things or involved in day to day stress that we typically miss the beginning of spring where things start fresh and new. It's also a good time to reflect on what we do have in life and may take for granted from time to time. 

Do you ever lose sleep over...

• excitement of what is to come later in the week?
  
• knowing you have to return your neighbor's ladder?
  
• wondering if you are going to slip on saying your future child's name (we are keeping it a secret)
  
• wondering what the future child is; boy or girl?
  
• wondering if the clothes in the dryer are really dry or should I put them back through again?
  
• why I can't seem to get comfortable?
  
• who the hell thought of the idea of daylight savings again? And, am I the only one suffering?
  
• how many people know of the two states that don't take part of daylight savings?
  
• Oh, wait, was that just the baby moving?
  
• does that mean the baby will be awake this time outside of me?
  
• really; do I have to pee again?
  
• maybe I should read?  Wait, I don't have a book.
  
• I want to go to FL?  no, I want to visit my sister?  maybe I could do a roadtrip or DC?
  
• If I did go somewhere I would have to prepare for extra bathroom breaks.
• what will work bring me tomorrow? 

These are just a few of my random thoughts that kept me up last night.  I can't believe that I can't sleep.  I know, I can hear it; "Wait until the baby comes"...but here's the thing; I haven't had sleeping problems since college...why are they starting again?  Does anyone have any tips on how to catch more zzz's before the baby comes?  Really, my mind is going nonstop over silly stuff.  I even asked Sean to hold me so I could try to calm myself down (he's such a great husband, he did hold me of course and he tried his best to calm me down).  I have been skipping naps which has been horrible...but then when it's time to finally sleep; I can't!

Drum roll please...

Well, why should I keep you all waiting any longer?!?! But, I want you to know that I will be updating here the most; but want to share my other new blog...so there will be two places to check...but it will be well worth it...so be sure to put both blogs on your list. Here's the link to second blog....http://babymcguinness.blogspot.com/.

And, for all of you who found me via my sister, Amy's blog; I hope that you stay and read to learn about our new experiences on this blog as well as my other. I love people reading my blog and even more, I love the comments so I can then read your blogs as well.

Condo For Sale

Our condo is officially on the market- in little Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio. Our little family is growing and need to sell. If you know of anyone who is interested, please pass on the word.

Visit Howardhanna.com and look for 546 Meredith Lane Cuyahoga Falls, Oh 44223.

Bittersweet...

On November 18th, 2006 I moved into my condo; a great stepping stone shortly after I graduated from college.  That too was a bittersweet moment moving away from home, but sure enough it was something one has to do.   This past Friday evening, I signed the papers to put our condo on the market.  I feel confident with our relator and excited for what she has to bring to the table, but it's still bittersweet.  

Looking back, this condo has brought me great joys.  I feel it brought Sean into my life; when I finally realized an attempt to be open with trying new things; to spread my wings to fly.   This condo has housed many gatherings from game nights, jewelry parties, spa parties, mother day brunches, birthdays, the 'meeting' of the parents...the list goes on...  Yes, it's a tiny little condo but it has been great for gatherings of family and friends.  Now it's too tiny for our growing family. 

I look forward to the sale of the condo.  I look forward to packing and reminiscing the good times...and the few bad (such as that time I flooded the neighbor belows' bathroom....oops!) .  I look forward to finding that perfect house for us and making it our home. Most of all, I look forward to that next chapter of my life moving on from single me to on with my family!

New Blog...coming soon!

I have been sick for three days now; so between sleeping, sneezing, and working....I have been working on my new blog.   And...I just wanted to let you know that soon I will be releasing the new baby blog...of course; I will still keep up with this one...however, one for all of those who are anxiously wanting to hear about the baby.  

Hope all is feeling well and healthy!

It's 12:33 pm...

...and all of the offices are busy out to lunch themselves! How am I supposed to call and set up appointments when there is no one on the other side of the phone!?! Gah! Maybe I will have to sneek some calls while at work!

So much to do....so little time (or energy)!

How is this really expected? I have always made it to the Dr. for a yearly checkup. That is about it that I can say that I have done each and every year for my health. Yikes, I know!!!

How does one work a 45-hour week...without a child fit it all in?

• The last time I went to the dentist was freshman year in college; when I had my wisdom teeth pulled.
• The last time I went to the eye Dr. was...probably freshman year in college when I realized I couldn't read in the screen in the big lecture hall.
• About 2 months ago, we were told to find a pediatrician for Baby McG. Yes, I have asked some friends and family; but....have I interviewed anyone...no!
• We are trying to put the condo on the market and did meet with the realtor; still haven't heard back from him though!

Today at my lunch break...

• I plan on making several calls and arranging appointments for a dentist for both Sean and I (and see if they are taking new patients).
• I plan on calling a highly recommended pediatrician practice through Children's hospital and see if they are taking new patients and to see if we can set up an interview.
• I plan on calling our condo association to see the status on fixing our ceiling...yes, it has water marks...and I have prolonged their long over due response; I also have to inquire about an outdoor light fixture.
• I plan on calling my eye Dr. and see when I can go in for a check up and hopefully for a much needed new pair of glasses.

So- is it just me; or is it this easy to fall behind with all these appointments on top of trying to keep up with family and friends.

Walgreen's...FREE photos today!

Hello all! I just wanted to share that today only you can go to Walgreen's website and upload 20 FREE 4X6 prints. When it comes time to checkout all you have to do is hit 'oneday' and then hit update total...FREE! Easy as that; and then you go and can pick them up within an hour! (**I'm sitting here at work uploading pictures FINALLY from our wedding from my sister's Kodak webpage**).

And, for Sean's benefit; he would probably want me to tell you to shop around the store a bit and see what other deals you can find there; really if you take a look at their ad, and use the weekly coupons you can really find good deals there each week.

Valentine's Day Surprise

Well, I thought I would update you all on our first valentine's day as a married couple. This year I really wanted to do something memorable...and I think I accomplished that!

We woke up and Sean was thrilled to give me my presents; there they sat on the dinning room table a dozen of red roses and a large bag of goodies; a stuffed bear; peanut m & m's (my fav), other chocolates, a picture frame (my fav), and a few other fun things including a little princess heart shaped candy (he's too cute).

After he gave me my presents; he and I made breakfast together...pancakes, eggs, sausage, toast, lots of stuff. I even tried to use my new 'smooch lips' cookie cutter to make the pancakes; but it wasn't working; then I tried hearts, and then I gave up; we had circles!

Sean knew he wasn't getting my gift until 4:30- and that I had a quick errand to run at 4:20- but I would be back to pick him up and he had to be ready. So, I left and then ran to Giant Eagle to pay for a large cookie that said "I love Sean" on it. As I left Giant Eagle, I called Sean...here's how the rest played out. I told him via the phone that if he wanted to see me again; he had to go to his jacket and follow the clues as quick as possible. Inside his jacket was a prerecorded card that told him I loved him and that he had to follow the clue on the left hand side and all of those that followed and to have fun. The first clue was to my aunt's house; where she greeted him at the door telling him to hurry to the next stop...that was Giant Eagle (to pick up the cookie I just paid for). The next stop was my Mom's mailbox. Then, the best stop in my opinion was the dollar tree, where he left with 10 valentine Mylar balloons. He was then directed to his Dad's house where he got his last clue to meet at our first date restaurant. There, I had reserved the SAME booth we sat at for our first date. Each stop also had his favorite candies and other little presents to keep him moving.

(This is Sean leaving the dollar tree; yes, I was hiding and took pics!) 

As we sat at dinner; I looked around the restaurant (we haven't been back since our first date) and I kept looking at him; and I remember sitting there the first time hoping that 'this guy' would be the guy. I am so lucky to have Sean enter my life and to say that he has made me incredibly happy is an understatement.

And, for all of those who are wondering; what did Sean think of this scavenger hunt?!? He said over and over that it was very creative, he's excited to see what I will do for our kids most of all....he did enjoy it; even better he had no clue about it and was very surprised and touched by it.

Happy...

Happy Valentine's day to you all!!!! 

Stupid silly stuff that's made me laugh...

Well, not sure if I have completely lost my marbles, but I can say that I have been doing weird stuff lately that just makes me laugh.   Here's a few that will hopefully put a smile on your face.

• When making eggs for dinner, I cracked the first egg's shell and put it in the bowl.  Now, onto the second egg, I cracked it...and poured it into the carton; then threw the shell into the  bowl. 
  
• I have put the box of cereal in the fridge, and the milk in the pantry.
• When moving a fan from one side of the desk to the other, apparently my pinkie slid right in and got caught within the plastic blade...ouch!   It's not a terrible cut; a little larger than a paper cut.  But for those of you who may have forgotten; turn a fan off prior to moving it! 
  
• When going to the bathroom the other day at work, I walked up the stairs...stood there and asked myself where the heck I was going since there wasn't a bathroom upstairs! 
  
• Thankful for my new car; I locked my keys in the car!!! But I just entered the code on the side of the door; and I picked them up (Thanks Sean for the car!)

Well, I guess that's not many; but each one of them I ask myself...what the heck!!! 

I am "lucky"!!!

I remembered I used to question the definition of "luck".  I mean, what does "luck" really mean? Pure "luck" to buy that winning lottery ticket? Do you make your own "luck" by thinking certain ways? Is luck really finding that four leaf clover in a patch? With that said, I guess I never really believed in luck; not going to lie...I still don't.  

However, whatever "luck" means; I certainly feel lucky!  I know a bit of an 'oxymoron', however, I really feel so lucky to have such a loving husband.  I am now 15 weeks along with our first child and it's been fairly an easy pregnancy (other than being tired).  And, with that said, not once have I asked for help with laundry, trash, dishes, nothing!!!  And, in those 15 weeks, I can't tell you when I have done any of those tasks.  This past Tuesday and Wednesday Sean was off work and asked for a "to-do" list.  So, I gave him one and made my own as well....you know since my energy is starting to come back I should start pulling my own weight around here. Well, guess what; he completed both of his; and mine!  And, now here I sit...blogging.   

I am not lucky just because my husband does things around here without me asking, but I am lucky to have such an amazing guy truly love me (and I love him back more and more everyday which I didn't know was possible).  I never dreamed that I would find such a great guy; never!!!  And, now, here I am each day loving this amazing guy; and I will admit I hope that it stays this way after the little one is here, and the next little one, and well, the next...and the next!  I hope we always stay this way; so happy and so in love.   We both love our condo that we live in; and know that one day soon we will put it on the market...moving onto something together and for our family, I hope we are just as happy there as we are here.   And, now here I sit like a high school girl waiting by the phone for Sean to call me on his way home from work.  

I know sometimes people can get wrapped up in things and not remember the value of what they have...what areas are you lucky in?  

Baby McG Update

I just thought I would update you on today's Doctor's appointment.   Sean went with me again and it was just a short little appointment to check BP, urine test, and the baby's heartbeat.  Well, the first of the two were very easy; my BP is down from the first visit.  It was 130/82 today...which is actually high from when I take it at home...so I may have a bit of that "white coat syndrome".  

Then it was time to find the baby's heartbeat. Sean and I played a game to guess what it would be...my guess, 142; his guess 155. The nurse put the little sonogram thing on me and about 5 minutes passed with commentary such as "wow, it's never been this hard for me to find a heartbeat"  needless to say her bedside manor wasn't any good.  She then left and went to get the RN.  The RN came in the room; and I breathed a sigh of relief this was the nurse we had last time and she was GREAT!  She put that thing on me; and...20 seconds later we had a strong heartbeat of 154...Sean was so close!  

The Doctor says everything else looks good and that we will see him again on March 10th for the BIG ultrasound.  :-)

14 weeks!!!!

Well, many of you have requested a baby update; so here you go!!!

Well, there are the joys of pregnancy and then there are so many things that are unexpected that goes along with it. Everyone asks...how are you feeling, are you having weird dreams, what do you think the sex of the baby is, what names are you thinking of....so, I guess that's what I can update you all on.

I am feeling great compared to some stories of other moms-to-be. The worst side effect is tiredness. Just the other evening I fell asleep on the couch at 8pm...and slept until 7am...of course, in between I got up at least 3 times to use the facilites. My belly is certainly starting to grow which doesn't hold people back from asking "wow; what are you having twins? triplets?". I will have to say I don't love people like that!

As for my dreams, they have been amazing! They are so vivid and when I tell them to Sean he just gets this "why am I married to her again?" look on his face. Without going into much detail, I have had a dream about a terrorist attack; about how I made friends with 2 cats and a duck and they ganged up on me and threw hermit crabs at me (and this dream I literally screamed out loud and Sean came running because he was still downstairs watching tv), and several other dreams about friends who are pregnant and I have predicted the sex of their children (now they have had ultrasounds and know)...I have been correct with 2 of the 3. I have had a dream about our child...and it was a boy!

As for the sex of the baby; it's really a 50/50 chance however, I will have to say my first instinct was a boy...so, I am going to stick with that; even though I am starting to lean towards a girl. Sean insists this baby is a girl. Actually, he's not the only one...I will say just about everyone has their opinion and insist on the sex of the baby; about 90% say this baby is a girl. Having people guess is quite fun. My one friend came up to me and asked me to show my hands....in return my friend insists it's a girl by the way I showed my hands.

As for names for the little one...we are toying with 2-3 names per sex of the child...but, we are not going to share the names until...the baby is born. We want to have somewhat a surprise for everyone and something fun for them to look forward to. However, since we are still not 100% sold on a name; we are taking some suggestions.

(Here's what the little one looks like now. Weighs about an ounce and is the length of a flip phone)

Our own version of a TLC show...

It's that time to try to do what we can to make our condo look nice so we can hopefully put it up on the market for a quick sale in this economy. Something that has been driving my Dad crazy since I moved in was the kitchen floor...so, I figured; heck, I will take his advice and install "Allure" flooring from 'The Home Depot'.

Well, I thought this project would maybe take 3 hours. Our kitchen isn't that big and it's a simple "stick it together and move onto the next piece" project. And, our friends, Nate and Liz had offered to come over and help us with this project; so we of course said "that would be GREAT!" What I didn't factor in, was the odd shape of the kitchen, as well as the fact that we'd have to move the stove and the fridge out.

(Here's the before picture)

(How do we move this stove out? Little did they know it would be HARDER to move it back in!)

While the boys were re-doing the floor, us girls tackled the closets upstairs. We cleaned out and organized the loft, my side of our closet and the bathroom. In the midst of our cleaning, I found a Christmas present that was for Sean. Yes, a month late, but I guess better late than never. Best part; I couldn't remember what it was; so I was just as surprised when he opened it.

(It was 2 polo shirts from Aeropostale)

And, the final product...10 hours later!!!

To my friends...Josh & Meg!!!

Hello all, well, I have received some ideas for a blog...talk about pregnancy (I have a secret blog about all that stuff...will share link at later date...once it's all up to date), talk about Nate, clarify that money technically isn't paper so it doesn't grow on trees, talk about pregnancy....yes if you read the comments, Josh really thinks pregnancy talk would be fun...or I could talk about Josh..since everything is about him!!!  But of all the topics; I really am going to talk about Josh. 

You see Josh and Meg are great friends of mine who I don't see nearly enough.  They are married and I used to work with the both of them at the YMCA...I shared an office with Josh (who was also my boss) and I would scream across the hall anytime I wanted to talk with Meg. Well, these two are a great couple; who I have looked up to with college and with my career.  I can't tell you all of the times that they have made me laugh (inlcuding the time I threw a piece of paper at Josh in the office and he ducked and fell out of his chair- do you remember that Josh?!?!?)  And Meg, she recommended the best Doctor in this world after she took care of me one day with my lovely cramps (Meg, do you remember that I literally couldn't put that heat patch on...and sure enough 24 hours later you were confirming...did you call the Dr???)  I kind of have them up towards the top of my totem pole of people who I have looked up to for years.   I have also joked if I won the lottery; they would receive a chunk of it...really they would.  Reason why...they both work so hard, have an adorable son, find the positive in EVERTHING...and well, have helped me in times of need in an unknowing way- just th

em being themselves.

Right now, this GREAT couple of mine is going threw something that I personally don't think I could do.  Josh is currently away "playing army guy" for the next year with active duty with the military.  Now, as you all know from previous posts; Sean and I go a few days without technically talking or seeing each other because of our schedules don't mesh; but I will have to say I won't complain about that again.    As we all know, this war has been going on for years...I have always known someone who knows someone in war; but now...I actually know someone...and I know he's a GREAT guy and has a GREAT family awaiting his safe arrival. 

So, Josh and Meg I know you are reading this and I want you to know as shared before that you both are in our thoughts and prayers.  You both are amazing people and whatever I can do to help you both through this time; please spell it out for me as I have no clue what to do.  And,  I guess I also want to share how much the both of you mean to me.   So, to the both of you remember to take this one day at a time...and Josh; you come back safe and when you do...who knows...I may have the little girl you are guessing about. Keep in touch!

Loss of ideas...

HELP! I am having trouble of thinking of ideas to blog about; I guess either my life is getting boring; or...who knows!?!?

Thoughts?

Does $ really grow on trees?!?!?

Since it's made from paper...I guess it does!

Well, I know, I am such a dork...but as we have rolled into the new year...and now saving for not only a baby; but a house for the baby...we have been trying our darndest to save our money...and well, not to mention the economy. Anyways, I thought; I am sure there are others out there that are trying to save some money in these rough times so why not put a post of some easy cost cutting tips that we have and are just starting to do.

• Unplug your cell phone chargers/microwave/lamps...etc while not using them. Yes, some times a pain to plug back in; ecspecially when it's the lamp and hard to see. We really have seen a lot of savings with this. Don't forget your computer as well!
• Make meals at home. Yes, with working it's hard, but try to plan ahead. If you do go out with friends or as a date order water, try to go at happy hour, and check online for any coupons prior to going.
• I use my Discover card for just about anything we really need- Gas, groceries, phone bill, etc...I gain cashback rewards; then I apply that to my bill...or occasionally, I get movie tickets for Sean and I. Remember to pay the enire card off that month...budget for what you charge. When not charging; use CASH for all other purchases and only allow a certain amount of cash for your wallet until your next pay.
• My Mom was always a stickler with the lights...and I would have EVERY LIGHT ON..even if I wasn't in the room..."if your not in the room, turn the light off"~Mom.
• When shopping; don't buy name brand; go to several stores if savings will be significant, cut coupons, and check the aisle ends for clearance items.

Here are new things we are trying:

• Make a list when going shopping and stick to it! (We have tried this once so far...and we only added carbonated water for me and bagels...again for me; but this was much harder than I thought it would be.)
• It's also hard for me to not just stop by Target and check the clearance; so, the only money on me is the cash. My Discover and other credit cards are hiding at home...and I must remember to grab them when I plan on using them; like when my gas light came on last night.
• Keep reciepts of everything purchased for 30 days; then re-evaluate what the money was spent on; needs or wants? Still trying to get Sean to do this one.
• When running errands, try to save on gas and go in sequence or to places closer to home/work instead of traveling.

My weekend...

As anticipated, we received about 10 inches of snow this weekend....and thank goodness I didn't have to go anywhere...then again, I was bored out of my mind.   Friday evening Sean and I quickly ran to Walgreen's to pick up a prescription for me then we got some dinner...went home and relaxed. 

Saturday, we woke up to lots of snow!   Sean had to work in the afternoon; so that morning we lounged around and watched the taped show of 'The Biggest Loser' from Tuesday.  After he left, I took a 3 hour nap!  Really productive!  Not.  So, I did 3 loads of laundry, folded them, ran the dishwasher, put out my valentine's decor, re-organized kitchen cupboards, the pantry, and cleaned the fridge.  When I went again to lay down, my neighbor Jamie begged me via face book to go and explore the snow fall; so...we bundled up and went.  Here's a picture below of the snow in our back woods.  As soon as I went to take a picture...my batteries died.  This picture is from Jamie! 

Sunday was here before I knew it.  Sean and I met up with my family for a breakfast at Bob Evans.  After breakfast we went to Target.  When we got home from Target, Sean went outside to clean his car off; he took mine yesterday with all of the snow...today he had to dig his out.  So, as he was digging himself out, I quickly put away the items from Target, and then fell asleep.  I didn't wake up until Sean left...it made me sad that I slept for two hours while Sean was home...but I guess that is what happens when you dont sleep well the night before and the prescription I am on causes drowsiness...and boy does it ever!  Anyways, today I have done really nothing other than put away the 3 loads of laundry that I folded yesterday, made myself dinner, and relaxed.  I guess it's okay to have some days relaxing and doing nothing, right?!?!  

So, I guess that's it for my boring weekend...did you do anything fun this weekend! 

Spontaneous evening!

Last evening was such a fun spontaneous evening.   Sean was at work and wouldn't be home until 8 but our friends Nate & Liz had a present for us from Nate's sister Stephanie...so they wanted to drop it off.   (By the way Stephanie, I was SOOO touched by your present....it really meant a lot to us that you thought enough to put that together, pink and blue paper and all!!)  Anyways, around 6; the two of them came over and like a good host, I asked if they'd like to come in.  Well, just about an hour and a half passes; longer than they anticpated to stay and we all developed a plan that we would all hide when Sean came home and then we would have Liz jump out at him...of course Sean would have been shocked because he wouldn't have known that Nate & Liz were there...and he would have expected me to jump out.  So, Nate, stood waiting patiently looking out the window peering for Sean's headlights...like a little boy looking for Santa's sleigh. 

We finally heard Sean's footsteps and we ran to our spaces.   (yes, we are crazy)...we heard the door open and then here's the downer...Sean actually opened the front hall closet; which he normally doesn't do and saw their shoes.  Then, us; all in our hiding spots quietly awaiting...Sean screams "Lynsey, where are you; I'm so in the mood"...and then he started loosening his belt.  He then found Liz, then me....then Nate.  So our plan back fired.

Sean was shocked to see that they were still here and after a long day at work, he was thrilled to see them.  Then, the four of us went out to dinner....yes, at 8:30pm.  We went to 'Five Guys'...and if you have one near you; you know how good those burgers are!   After dinner we all sat and chatted until we were the last ones there at ten and felt like we should probably leave.   When we got home, we were still having fun that they came back in and we chatted more.    It was nice to have this stress-free evening with them and just relax with each other.

** SIDE NOTE:  I had really fun pictures of Nate looking out the window and both Nate & Liz in their hiding spots...but I don't have the patience to figure out how to download them right now. 

Dr.'s Appointment

Well, I have been at a loss for blog ideas...I mean what more can I share about our weekends; we went to lunch and movies (yes movies; we snuck into one) while that was lots of fun, I don't think I want to bore you...and well, I was given strict instructions not to blog about our experience at the Social Security office to FINALLY go and change my name...so, why not talk about our second Dr.'s appointment...and a bit about the pregnancy so far!!! 

Today was our second Dr.'s appointment and can I tell you how much I love my Doctor!  It's such a great feeling to have such an amazing Dr...and yes, it's a guy doctor which I NEVER thought I would have.  Well, anyways, today was our second appointment and the nurse asked me a million questions and told me I was boring because of the lack of medical history...and then the best part- she took my blood pressure and it's back down!  It was 132/85 or something like that...where the last time it was threw the roof!   Other great news is that my blood test from the previous appointment said that I have enough immunity to fight off  chicken pox (I have never had them, so I feel like I won the jackpot there!!)  

Finally, the nurse put the little heart monitor on my belly and warned us about the potential on not hearing the heart rate because it's still pretty early; if she didn't hear it, she would then do an ultrasound.  After watching 'Marly & Me' this past weekend, we so badly wanted to hear the heartbeat at 10 weeks.  So, I took a deep breath as the little device touched my belly, and the nurse said within a second "Wow, this is a good little baby" (because we instantly heard the heartbeat) which made me laugh at how the nurse said that...and then because of my laughter it took a few moments to find the heartbeat again...but we heard it!!!  162...and sounded like a little horse galloping or a train chuggling along.   

The sound of the heart beat was so amazing and made me think for a moment while I was listening; as my symptoms of being tired are starting to uplift it's hard for me to even realize there really is a little baby in me...and right now I am the one taking vitamins, eating healthy and trying my best to be active for this little one is all worth it...I can't wait to get that little bump (despite the clothing size) and feel this little one kick me (even if it's in the ribs)...but most of all, I can't wait to see this baby, hold this baby in my arms because I have hunch it's a boy...and he's going to look just like his Daddy! 

In 10 weeks we will find out if my hunch is right...so many people are telling me it's a girl...I still say boy!